Because there is so much social pressure women of today have so many divergent choices, making their lives a difficult.
Some are stuck trying to climb the corporate ladder and feel they are missing out on marriage and family. Others who are divorced and are feeling guilty for not making their marriage work. Then there those stay at home moms who miss their careers and wish they could return back to work.
Also, there are women and in particular young girls who don’t like but hate their body’s image, and feel either guilt, shame or both…. And the list goes on.
Well, then there are single women who believe that they cannot attract a man and who become either depressed or angry. Besides, there are other women who are unhappily married and who tend to take out their anger by using alcohol, food or sex as a substitute for not receiving love. Next, there are religious women who believe that they are unworthy and who will use religion towards a supposition of their own personal righteousness.
Lastly, there are those women who are distressed and who are addicted, and due to depression will use either alcohol; drugs, sex or any alternative substance as a means of denial as a cover-up to some painful past that they have experienced. These women might be married or single.
The problem here with all of these women experiences, though they may seem to be different is that it is they are all carry this same painful source, many unknowingly. It is that all of these women are not experiencing soul connection and are using external means or practices as a substitute to experiencing a divine connection.
Yes and many of these women, are living from the outside/in and therefore are doomed to failure. Why they do is because they fail to recognize that living from the inside/out is their only source of divine connection.
Remember, it is as Jesus stated over 2,000 years ago, stated that the “Letter kills us but it’s the Spirit that Gives us Life”. Living from spirit is yours to experience and that is available to all; or all those who are willing to discover happiness internally.
While reading this blog, I hope to examine both the cause and a solution of your experiences as your read many of these pages. I hope that at least one or two of your readings will help you discover your divine selves by experiencing both your human body and divine spiritual natures.
Equilibrium Exists between Pleasure and Pain
Eckhart Tolle in his book, “A New Earth” suggests that people in the West are stuck in Pain of which he calls it “Pain Body”. He infers that if people cannot get through their pain, then they deny themselves the ability of experiencing pleasure.
Most people in the West he suggests experiences “Pain Body” because as soon as they experience pain, they push that pain away and instead pretend it doesn’t or didn’t exist so they won’t feel the pain and if they did feel it Tolle suggests, they could allow it to slowly dissolve.
That is why women and men have so much fear, guilt, shame as they over and over again, reconnect with so many of their past negative emotions. The problem is that so many people are STUCK in PAIN, and don’t know how to let it go or are afraid to do so.
They don’t realize that in the “Law of Attraction” it states what think you don’t want is what God or the Universe will return to you. And so what goes around comes around not only with our abusive acts but also from our reckless thoughts that creates our own despair.
So what is the solution? Being Human is all about experiencing in your life both pain and pleasure. That’s why being STUCK in PAIN is a problem? In fact, whether a person is rich, famous or a plain Jane, the law of equivalency returns what you think about the most and or what you think you don’t want.
For example, if you think daily I don’t like being poor, well that is what you’ll become impoverished.
So what is the only formula that will remove “Pain Body”? This is another law of equivalency formula, which goes something like this. As soon as you experience your pain and refuse to push it away and then feel the pain and go with it. Remember, pain acts like a storm and will only last for a few minutes or hours, but within less than a day, like the sun returning in the sky, your pleasure will return.
Remember what Proverbs states, “And this shall pass”, and pain does pass, if you experience it and don’t run from it and once the storm goes away, soon it will leave and the next day the sun will rise. It always does so does pleasure follow pain. That is what Equilibrium is all about. People in pain, fail at this process miserably and hold onto rather than learning how to let it go.
Jesus said it right when he said, that once we experience true human emotions is when we can enter the divine. In fact, experiencing our divine natures is what He referred to as entering “The Kingdom of God”. Those persons who are entering “The Kingdom of God” are those who can experience both their human and divine natures.
Short Run Body / Soul Solutions (Breath, Body, Food and Water Practices)
You heard the expression of “Being Comfortable in Your Own Skin”; too often people don’t know what that means or are not aware of how this process occurs. The first thing we have to do to enter into “The Kingdom of God” is that we need to get out of our HEADS. We humans are in negative thought nearly 80% of day which is also 24/7; or who experience Tolle’s “PAIN BODY”. That is why it is sometimes referred to by some authorities as STINKING/THINKING.
Most people are unaware, that their thoughts are killing them unless they learn to take daily time outs through apply Micro Meditation. I will explain this process in a later blog post. Meanwhile, those individuals stuck in PAIN BODY are unaware too, that there is a strong alignment between their body and their spirits.
Taking time outs through breathe and learning how to tune into their body through Micro Meditation, is what people need to do. By the way recognizing that your body is a gift from God, and that it is the seat to your feelings, and that your body is a means of tuning into your spirit like receiver, acts like receiving a radio frequency transmission.
Your practice is to apply any of the below practices at least 3 to 4 times a week. Also, many of these practices and many more may be discussed in greater depth as our blog progresses.