Woman's Secret ~ French Women not only speak French and live by "Joie de Vive" but Being ALIVE is their TRUE Life’s Mission
“Beauty is not caused. It is.” -Emily Dickinson
This week we will begin by studying FRENCH women. I added" Joie de Vive" is because this is how many French women live. Looking at this picture you can see why.
In fact, if I were you I would read this with interest because you might decide that being French, might become your model lifestyle choice.
I am afraid French women think much different than American women. In fact, some of you might envy their lifestyle.
The French culture has created them the way they are when they were little girls. So if you decide you would like to be more French, it may take you a while to perfect
However reading this portion I believe you will want to learn more of how French Women live, because you might like to become French yourself. With no further, adieu, so let's begin.
I studied French during my youth, and living in a French community of Montreal, which receives most of its correspondence from Pars,i both in newsprint and TV, I got to understand how French women think. In fact, learning the language and studying French Literature, gave me some insights into their culture.
Besides you don’t have to be French to live this way, I have a sister whose name is Shari, and she lives this way, and she isn’t French, You can experience the French or any other global, lifestyle choice we will discuss, different cultural choices in “The Woman Hub”.
What I believe that American woman do wrong is they try to hard to be beautiful, when trying so hard is not necessary. Relax, you are all beautiful in your own way. It's because French woman may keep up with fashion but they don't make it an obsession and they have a life.
The French word, Chique tells it all. I believe that little French girls learn from their mothers this Natural Beauty trait. First of all, they do their hair simply. Most wear very little make-up, and even if one dresses casual they dress elegantly. Most are not fat, because they know how to eat sensibly and avoid snacking. Age or DNA has little of nothing to do with one’s beauty and each one elicits her very own sense of beauty.
Whether, old or young each one is individually attractive, each in her own way. However, I do have a program for each one of you to gain more natural elegance and charisma, that I will share with you below.
The author of this blog link’s name is Kate, even though she doesn’t offer her last name. Only that she was an American student in France as she talks about what she has learned how French women live.
Here is what Kate in her blog below learned as she lived in Paris. Her link below is spot on about the beauty that French women carry. I noticed the same thing in Montreal when I lived there too.
“French women, each and every one of them, are effortlessly beautiful, and they are beautiful independently of one another, each in their own unique way. I have literally never seen a French woman that I thought was ugly. Are they genetically more attractive than American women? Maybe.
But spending time in France is teaching me that genetics have little to do with physical beauty. The differences in a French woman versus an American woman’s approach to our three fashion obsessions–clothes, makeup, and hair–have revealed some interesting truths.”
“I think American women, and especially this American woman, could learn a lot about the link between beauty and confidence from French women. Beauty is not about conforming to a standard of what is or is not “beautiful.” It is unique to each and every one of us, and (most importantly) independent of the other beautiful women around us.
That’s all a terrible cliché, but worth being reminded of. We should stop asking the question of whether or not that girl I was cursing a few minutes ago is prettier than I am. Instead, we should recognize that another beautiful girl’s beauty does not take away from our own, if we can only maintain the confidence and comfort in our own skin that French women seem to have mastered.”
So what is my suggestion for women as how they can learn to become naturally beautiful. Abraham Maslow suggested it when he discussed the idea of reaching the top of his chart, as a person or in this case, a woman can become self-actualized. According to Kay Green, how does this happen. It is by following this important protocol.