Never Be Rushed Formula ~ Why this Simple Formula can become Your Secret decision making FORMULA that You Begin Today!
Every now and again I sometimes discover something that I believe is important to share.
In one of my previous posts I added the idea which was "Never Be Rushed".
I never rush myself. See, they can't start the game without me. Satchel Paige
I have to tell you how I happened upon this idea.
In this picture rushing into love or marriage might in fact, be a mistake. That is why anyone thinking of making such a decision as marriage need especially remember and apply this "No Rush Formula" below.
Taking time to contemplate who and why you are going to marry and particular person, might be the most important decision you will ever make.
So following this formula in love is essential.
My wife tells me that I am a B personality when I shared my NO RUSH FORMULA with her. She tells me while I am an A she said, and so she shared her own why she could never follow my practice.
However, I never made a comeback as to why she should change, because I realized that her A personality was not her choice, but was due to socialization and one she learned from her family.
Because she is her own person, trying to prove my point of view when she wouldn't going to listen was something I decided it best not to do. I decided that maybe through my actions will be a better strategy. I even told her that one of Jesus valuable traites was he rarely rushed into anything but still I knew after saying this, that she still wasn't going to change.
However, I personally believe, that we have to give people room especially family member room to find out things on their own I believe and especially for those persons we love. Like the adage, "What you love you have to set FREE" and I believe in that premise firmly.
How I stumbled on this principle came to me because I almost died with the bone marrow cancer called Non- Hodgkins Lymphoma and today I feel I have a second chance of life, now that I am fully in remission, when several people have died with having that desease.
I decided rushing is not important to me any more, as it might have been before my illness.
So getting back to the issue of "You Never Be Rushed" as a decision making tool, I have decided to share with you how it works for me. Much of what I have learned also came from my long daily desert walks,
So here is the formula I believe will change your life forever that falls within the realm of emotional quotient. Emotional Quotient suggests that people living by being less impulsive and more throught motivated, became even more successful in life from those having a higher IQ.
So EQ became the result of a very important psychological breakthrough. In fact, is was discovered over a 50 year period of analysis with elementary kids and checking those who had that quality from those that didn't and see the wealth and success between both groups where those who had it naturally were not only happier but were more successful whether it was financially or in their career choices.
As the world rushes it becomes easy for you to speed up when it is not necessary. One reason that it works is because as we enter the information age, too many people RUSH into things. Time is sped up and is going so fast, that the world keeps rushing and so people need an alternative or a "TIME OUT" method, that allows them to HOLD BACK for even a few seconds, before they decide.
What I suggest is that having this trait is not inborn but can be learned and this is a method I have discovered and devised that if you desire to become more successful in every way possible, following this simple decision making approach, will set you well on your way.
I will look at it in a Christian way of thinking so you can concieve how this decision making process works and how it can work within your own life. I will look at it from what Jesus spoke, by experiencing the Holy Spirit, and how it can be done.
But once you get going, it requires that you make it permanent. So let's get onto my "No Rush Formula". So let's end the discussion on the why and let's proceed with the what and how it works.
A NO RUSH Decision Making FORMULA
Being Rushed ( How the World Operates) Being Unrushed ~ Holy Spirit is not rushed (Unworldly)
Impulsive and Emotionally Charged Emotional Quotient and Less Emotionally Hurried
Why ~ Technology Tends to make us rush Why ~ It helps you to step-back and take a second look
We live life more out of FEAR living this way We live more confident as more of our decisions work.
Why this Emotional Quotient life living approach works. It is because when we stop rushing around is when we can become more patient, we tend to make fewer mistakes, we tend to become more emotionally stable living with less drama, we tend to be more meditative, we tend to be more creative and we tend to be more self-aware of our body and our inner emotions.
One of the most important ways of becoming a body person is to start on this NO RUSH FORMULA today, because when we RUSH we tend to put our bodies last, and when we do, we tend to lose a lot of wisdom along the way.
I promise that if you begin this NO RUSH Decision Making Formula today and try it for a few weeks and a month, life for you will forever change. And what I find that is even more important is that as I live this way, I have become wealthier, and much happier and much more content within my own life.
I decided to add not being rushed dealing with a few You Tube Videos and Marriage below especially using this formula in love. I hope you will enjoy them.